Let me start the answer with a resounding NO! There are those that believe that vulnerability is a sign of weakness. The true weakness is in the lack of vulnerability. While participating in any relationship it is important that you give. In order to give you must be able to be vulnerable.
Sometimes the most beautiful stories from strangers can enhance your own relationships. The stories that a complete stranger will relate to you and no one else, can be little miracles in your life. People love to talk about themselves and share their stories. When you listen to them it really lifts their spirit!
Are you attracted to people who are emotionally unavailable to you? If you are then you have a problem of worthiness. We are attracted to our own level of wellness. We seek out those that are either in the same place emotionally and spiritually OR those that can feed our low self-esteem. Sounds pretty messed up, huh? Not really.
Open-mindedness is a state of being that requires no judgement. Ahhh. Well what does “no judgement” mean? What it means is that you have no thoughts or actions which would give any kind of prejudice against or for any action, behavior, belief, or thing. Are you truly open-minded?
Do you have that one person in your life that almost never has anything positive to say? Are you that person? You cannot change the other person but you can certainly change yourself. Negative messages are a serious problem for good living. I have been accused of blowing sunshine up people’s rear.
Change does not come by osmosis. When you need to make a change, you need a reason to do so. What are your reasons? Are your relationships suffering? How is your health? What is your financial situation? Personal change is not only a mental event. It requires a change of everything.
Anger is a necessary emotion. What? Yes it is. All emotions are necessary. It is not that you feel the emotion of anger, but what your actions and behavior are when you experience this emotion. You may ask why we need this emotion…or you may already know why. Anger is a survival emotion.
Here is the finest finale of all of the hard work you can do to reach your personal goals! What does giving your gift mean? What does it mean to you and those that you care about? Some think that giving of themselves simply means giving money to charitable organizations and forgetting.
Fear drives humankind to kill each other and themselves. Fear is what drives the teenager to ruthless degradation of their fellow classmates. Fear is what drives a spouse to unfaithfulness. Fear can cause a mother to abandon her children. Fear can cause a father to beat his children.