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Who Are You?

This question has been posed throughout time. As long as humanity has been on this earth, we have asked ourselves this question more often than any other question. Who am I? How is this important to my relationship with my loved ones? Why do I need to define this? If you are asking these questions […]

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Shoulds

You should….You shouldn’t….Bull! If you are doing this to each other as a couple, STOP IT NOW! Should is about control. What are you trying to convey when you tell your loved one that they should or should not have done anything. Remember that the statement of should is sitting in judgment of your loved […]

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What Other Couples Say?

Noticing the responses from “other people” on social media is astounding. I have seen others very freely decide that a person needs to end their relationship. I have read that they flat out tell people to get a divorce. My question to you is this….do you know this person? And yet another question…Does that person […]

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Will You Stay If?

Many couples do not talk about this outside of their relationship and these are questions that all couples either think about or ask each other. What are some of the questions that you have for your loved one about whether they will stay? Here is a list that you may relate to: What if…. I […]

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Little Living Things

Couples sometimes get caught up in the little living things in their relationships. Some couples have come to me and have carried those little resentments for years. Does this sound familiar to you? Are you still harboring a resentment that your husband does not take out the trash unless you ask him to? Do you […]

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Hiding

When and where did you decide that hiding things from our loved one is okay? Hiding your actions from your loved one will foster mistrust. Taking a risk and trusting that your loved one will still love you no matter what decisions you have made is a key and essential component to any good relationship. […]

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How Does This Look?

We of the female persuasion have been conditioned to ask our loved ones this question. Do you really want the answer to that or do you want your loved one to respond the way that you want your loved one to respond? Think about this. Are you setting your loved one up? I say yes […]

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Who Belongs in Your Special World?

Who belongs in your relationship? What a question! Does your best friend belong? Does your mother or sibling belong? How do you value their opinions? You decide. There are some that say that these influences are interfering and some that say that they are the sounding board for their frustrations. Which is it for you? […]

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Are You Angry? Write It Down!

Are You Angry? Write It Down! My father was a businessman. He is retired now. When he was working he traveled a great deal and had many interactions with many different kinds of people from many different upbringings. In my lifetime he has given me bits of wisdom that I have adopted and have served […]

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Take A Walk

Walking is such an amazing tool. It is one of the most effective ways to really breathe in and breathe out. Do you walk? Some people think that they don’t have time to walk because their lives seem so busy. Mostly I hear that people actually enjoy walking when they take the time. What does […]